4-Essential-Skills-For-Men

Learn To Build On Mistakes

  1. Have courage to confront your mistakes

  2. Self forgiveness is important

  • Let go of what you can't have

  • Tension = difference between reality and what we crave, it is keeping us to stay in survival mode

  1. Introspection is critical

  • Approach your inner self with curiosity

  • Leave judgement behind

  • Evaluate your reactions, look deep to find the source of reactions

  1. Embrace your past

Use Negative Emotions As Strength

  1. Regret - is essential to human growth

  2. Fear - shields us from threats

  3. Discussion - prevents us from consuming toxic or unrealistic information

Master Love and Being Vulnerable

  1. Nourish love with happiness

  2. Share love with others

  3. Bigger heart = more compassion

  4. Happiness = mindfulness

  5. Be empathetic

  6. Strive for

  • Kindness = making others happy

  • Compassion = see through sufferings of others

  • joy = spreading lasting and deep happiness

  • Eqiunimity = seeings others suffering as your own and doing something about it

  1. Give back generously

Find Purpose of Life

  1. Requires patience and dedication

  2. Starts with right mindset at the start of the day

  3. Understand

  • Growth Mindset = Seeing failure as an opportunity to improve

  1. Apply Growth Mindset to develop powerful habits

  • Use Time + Practice + Perspective + Will to Create powerful habits

  • List your habits to find

  • which habits are good and which ones are bad

  • which ones take more time than they give

  • Replace bad habits with good habits

  • Aim to account for every hour of your day

  • Make it harder to resort to bad habits

Take a Break, Comeback Stronger

  1. Signs our body wants a break

  • Hating our job

  • Poor Performance

  • Being Glued to Screen all the time

  1. It is okay to stepback and recharge

Bonus

  1. Strong Inside = Stronger Outside

  2. Healing = Reprogram yourself from being in survival mode to being always conscious

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